Select Page

Friday Thoughts

So today, I’m going to touch upon my justification for why soulmates exist: The other day for fun, and somewhere in the neighborhood of 30 beers deep I decided it would be a good idea to start tallying my “number”. And no, I’m not going to tell you how many...

My 30 Conundrum?

So let’s talk perspective for a moment. In 68 days I’ll have been on this planet a marvelous 30 years. Roughly 10,958 days, 262,968 hours, and give or take 15,778,090 minutes. That’s a lot of time. It’s funny, because if you’ve never...

Finding Life’s Silver Linings

It’s often easy to be bogged down in the shit that steps on you sometimes but you have to see the proverbial open window to your closed-door. Shit happens for a reason. You can either cry and complain or you can figure out your new course of action and navigate...

Attraction and Relationships

Recently someone asked me what I thought was the most important aspect of a relationship and naturally my naive brain immediately jumped into attraction and sex. Obviously. Now are these necessarily number one? Part of me thinks so and here’s why. First off,...

Knowing what Men want

It’s 2015 (weird), and I’m left wondering what “hot” means anymore when it comes to a woman. What are guys attracted to anymore? What turns us on? Is it still the “Baywatch” version of Pam Anderson? Are we still turned on by big-breasted women, running down the beach...

The Debt Crunch

Close to 20 million Americans attend college every year. Of that number, 60% or roughly 12 million of those college students, borrow money to attend. I was in this 60% and to this day still have a large monthly payment to good old Uncle Sam. Today, there are currently...

The Relational 50: Avoiding Complacency

Why is it that people openly discuss the Freshmen 15 but seldom talk about the “Relational50”? Sure, young men and women alike venture off to college and are on their own for the first time and this leads to epic levels of poor food consumption and large quantities of...

Five Dating Rules To Ditch

The old adage goes, “good things come to those who wait.” I think this is complete and utter bullsh*t. In dating, the waiting game is just a brain implosion waiting to happen. There are rules that govern every aspect of dating, none of which impose more stress or...

Fuckships

God I love this word. And I’m pretty sure I invented it. At least I think I did. Regardless, I’ve coined this epic expression to describe a bit of what relationships seem to be morphing towards nowadays. There seems to be amongst the dating populous a less...