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Relationship Settlers and Reachers

Did you ever watch How I Met Your Mother? If not, Netflix is waiting for you, trust me. Anyway, on the show they had this common theme in that every relationship has a settler and a reacher. In other words, one person in the relationship settles for the other, who is involved in a relationship with someone out of his or her league, the settler. Now, I’m sure you have all heard of this phenomenon before, but I’d like to elaborate a bit on my feelings about this dating pattern.

Single and Pressure to be married by 30

Yes, I’m reposting this: I’m 29 years old and, in the past year, I was in four weddings, two of which I was the best man. What this really has me wondering is why everyone aged from 21 to 30 years old is finding this age bracket as the ideal and necessary time...

How To Crush in A Social Media World

Let’s just say it, as social media becomes an ever-increasing part of our lives, crushing on someone can quickly toe the lines of soft-core stalking and stage-5 clinging. The truth is, as we become more connected, our abilities to interact with people on non-creeper levels dissipates. Have a crush on someone?

What Do Men Want?

Where the hell is the female equivalent of Mel Gibson when I’m asked this question? Most men want a woman to be able to read their mind and hear what they’re thinking, so she can convince them that she’s their soul mate and everything they’ve been waiting...

How Full is Your Glass?

There’s always that lengthy duration of sadness, regret, and fear when a relationship ends. You look back at the time spent and wonder what you could have done differently. Was there anything more you could do? Was she the one? Was your inability to adapt the...

We’re All Crazy

I’ve been told this so many fucking times but I’m going to let you in on a little secret… I’m a loony toon. Completely and utterly bat shit fucking crazy. And you know what? I really don’t give a flying fuck what anybody (not you Mom) thinks....