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Knowing what Men want

It’s 2015 (weird), and I’m left wondering what “hot” means anymore when it comes to a woman. What are guys attracted to anymore? What turns us on? Is it still the “Baywatch” version of Pam Anderson? Are we still turned on by big-breasted women, running down the beach...

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The Debt Crunch

Close to 20 million Americans attend college every year. Of that number, 60% or roughly 12 million of those college students, borrow money to attend. I was in this 60% and to this day still have a large monthly payment to good old Uncle Sam. Today, there are currently...

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The Relational 50: Avoiding Complacency

Why is it that people openly discuss the Freshmen 15 but seldom talk about the “Relational50”? Sure, young men and women alike venture off to college and are on their own for the first time and this leads to epic levels of poor food consumption and large quantities of...

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Five Dating Rules To Ditch

The old adage goes, “good things come to those who wait.” I think this is complete and utter bullsh*t. In dating, the waiting game is just a brain implosion waiting to happen. There are rules that govern every aspect of dating, none of which impose more stress or...

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Fuckships

God I love this word. And I'm pretty sure I invented it. At least I think I did. Regardless, I've coined this epic expression to describe a bit of what relationships seem to be morphing towards nowadays. There seems to be amongst the dating populous a less and less...

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Is There Monogamy Anymore?

Based on my Facebook feed for the last month or so and the dozen plus engagements I'd say yes, obviously. But hear me out for a second. For almost every single species on this planet except for humans, monogamy does not exist. While I have no evidence to back this up,...

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Chase Passion

You know what I'm tired of? I'm tired of worrying about how many likes one of my Instagram posts gets. And I'm tired of wondering how many favorites or retweets some snarky comment I make on Twitter gets. I'm tired of worrying about how many people like when I chance...

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Relationship Settlers and Reachers

Did you ever watch How I Met Your Mother? If not, Netflix is waiting for you, trust me. Anyway, on the show they had this common theme in that every relationship has a settler and a reacher. In other words, one person in the relationship settles for the other, who is involved in a relationship with someone out of his or her league, the settler. Now, I’m sure you have all heard of this phenomenon before, but I’d like to elaborate a bit on my feelings about this dating pattern.

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Single and Pressure to be married by 30

Yes, I'm reposting this: I’m 29 years old and, in the past year, I was in four weddings, two of which I was the best man. What this really has me wondering is why everyone aged from 21 to 30 years old is finding this age bracket as the ideal and necessary time to...

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A Bit of Perspective

Every now and then, life really takes a massive gigantic shit on your face. (excuse the mental image I just provided you) The reality of life is that it's composed of equal parts joy, and equal parts misery. The problem with that reality is that we are, for one reason...

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How To Crush in A Social Media World

Let’s just say it, as social media becomes an ever-increasing part of our lives, crushing on someone can quickly toe the lines of soft-core stalking and stage-5 clinging. The truth is, as we become more connected, our abilities to interact with people on non-creeper levels dissipates. Have a crush on someone?

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The 20 Something Dating Juggle

There seems to be an ever-increasing proclivity for Gen-Yers to date more than one person at a time. In principle for the age group I’m talking about, part of me understands the inclination for such an arrangement. It’s a hookup culture we live in and it seems ever...

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What Do Men Want?

Where the hell is the female equivalent of Mel Gibson when I’m asked this question? Most men want a woman to be able to read their mind and hear what they're thinking, so she can convince them that she’s their soul mate and everything they've been waiting for, someone...

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How Full is Your Glass?

There's always that lengthy duration of sadness, regret, and fear when a relationship ends. You look back at the time spent and wonder what you could have done differently. Was there anything more you could do? Was she the one? Was your inability to adapt the driving...

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Dealing with Life

Sometimes it's hard to talk about difficult things that are going on in your life. Sometimes, it is even harder to talk to your friends or your family about what's happening in your life, or if you're feeling lonely and sad. The sad reality is that, life's unexpected...

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